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What Is The Best Gift To Give Your Spouse Or Partner This Year?

As the holiday season approaches, I keep thinking about what gifts hold the most meaning. In therapy sessions, I frequently hear couples say, “If only we could have just talked to each other more,” “If only we had more time…how did our lives get so crazy?”, “I just don’t remember or know who you are any more…or who I …

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Fighting

I just read an article explaining how sometimes in marriage you have to lose to “win”.  This makes me think about a statement I have heard and I often say to my clients “you can be right or you can be in relationship with”.  What does that mean to you and what do you want? Do you …

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Intersections

I recently heard someone talking about intersections in life.  I found it incredibly insightful.  It made me think about all the different times in our  lives when we run into our own intersections and what does that mean?  When I think about intersections, I think about change, fear, loss or the ending of something, uncertainty, difference, and …

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Desire

The 50 Shades SeriesPart 1, Desire I recently read the 50 shades of Grey series by EL James, and have decided to include my comments on the books.  This series offers up so many different areas of discussion that I will be doing my own 50 Shades of Grey series. I recently saw EL James interviewed …

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Sad City

Recently Men’s Health magazine ranked St. Petersburg as the Saddest City in America. I went on ABC action news (watch here) to discuss is this really true?  Whether you agree or disagree with the study, it does bring up some issues to be discussed.  First, no matter what stage of life you may find yourself in …

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